Do you know that feeling? You know that one you have when you have been waiting almost 23 years for something to happen, say go on a very special trip, and now as you sit on the bus, travelling the last stretch home, it all seems a little unreal? My trip to Italy was so perfect that it almost seems like it was a dream and a big part of me is sad that it had to end.
“Why are you always smiling?” Davide asked me as we stood outside Zia Teresa’s front door waiting for the ‘very big’ lift.
“Because I’m always happy!” Was my simple answer.
This was the simple answer, but in truth there were two reasons. The first was that I always had this big smile on my face because I had no idea what everyone was talking about and trust me in Italy they are always talking! The smile seemed to be the simplest way for me to hide my total confusion without looking too silly, but looking back it now seems it might have made me look a little “crazy” as Davide would say.
The second is that I really was happy all the time. From the moment I was greeted at the airport I was fed, pampered, fed, taken sightseeing, fed, taken shopping, fed, introduced to practically everyone related to me and oh did I mention there was food involved?
If you did not already realise it I had a lot to eat. Every day at lunch there were 5 course meals to be enjoyed. I ate antipasti’s, pasta, fish, meat, lasagne, traditional Molfetta seafood dishes, fruit, nuts, cakes, sweets, chocolates, red wine, liquors and of course coffee. Espresso’s and Latte’s like you have never tasted before. I even ate Taralli’s, a delicious Italian biscuit that I last ate almost five years ago! I ate so many of these doughnut shaped biscuits I was in real danger of becoming doughnut shaped. Now that I think about it I am a little bit more round...
When I wasn’t eating I was sightseeing. The south of Italy is beautiful with its old white stoned fishing towns, rocky coastline, hectare upon hectare of olive orchids and vineyards. I had some amazing walks through old towns, like Molfetta, Trani and Giovinazzo, that at night come alive with activity. There are throngs of people everywhere just walking, talking, shopping and of course eating. I also visited an 17th century gun powder factory, in the amazing setting of a sink hole, and Castle del Monte, a curiously built castle on a hill from which you can practically see forever in all directions.
Another highlight was getting to meet so many of my relative and trust me there are a lot. From aunts, uncles, great aunts and cousins both big and small. On the Saturday night Zia Teresa hosted a ‘little’ family get together and I was able to meet everyone. It was a little difficult to communicate, but it was fantastic just to stand in a corner and watch them all. Italians really are a lively lot and I don’t think there was a second of silence from the moment the first people walked in to the moment the last person left. It was so much fun!
Afterwards I went out dancing with my cousin Marco and his friends. Now at the time when Swedish, and even South African parties, usually end Italian parties only get started. If we had sat for just another half an hour on that dock drinking espresso we would have seen the sunrise, but I think we were all just a little too tired.
To recount all my adventures of the last week would be a blog on its own and even to put only half of the pictures I took would be difficult, but know that this little trip to Italy was easily one of the most memorable ones I’ve ever taken and I can’t wait to go again in the summer.
Hej då
PS: I dedicate this post to the loving memory of my Nonna.
